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Marsha.J..McCurley

1951- 2004


How I met my wife

by David Lawrence


I should tell you first of all that I've been asked to write this. Without this urging I would be a trifle reluctant to do such a thing, but I bent under pressure. If you find yourself without a dry eye at the end of reading this, please remember you have been duly warned.

I'm English as anyone can tell within 10 seconds of meeting me. They say we are two nations separated by a common language. In 1981 I edited a quarterly media newsletter featuring one of those 60's British tv series. In fact it was one of the longest tasks I've ever been involved in, as I published it for 19 years. Marsha subscribed to our magazine and later became it's U.S representative replying to new membership applications. She enabled U.S. enquiries to subscribe to the magazine without them having to write away to an address in the UK. The tv series was called The Prisoner and was filmed at a private estate in Wales called Portmeirion, instead of the usual film set. There was a time difference of 5 hours between us so when we used to talk on the phone it was usually at the ungodly hour of 3.30 in the morning.

The newsletter planned a 'special' publication comprising a collection of short stories with authors on both sides of the Atlantic. Somehow a plan evolved whereby I should have the covers printed in England and fly over with the covers to Georgia and visit Marsha where we would jointly prepare the text originals for the interior pages and then get these printed in the U.S. It was a curious plan but it seemed to satisfy what was needed. As I landed at Augusta in September 1981 Marsha was 29, I was 54. But whilst the eyebrows you are now raising would be something that others might consider inappropriate, it never entered into any of our reckoning. Marsha's parents, who lived a mile away, were justifiably worried, but they probably soon realized that they were too late.

The story book progressed in fits and starts and finally got printed and completed. It's all in the past now but publication work turned into romance and then to marriage plans so when I eventually returned to England - about 5 months later - it was with Marsha at my side, having been married in Aiken, SC. I was never really sure whether this fact reassured her parents or whether it caused them even greater anxiety. I would like to believe that as the years rolled by, it became the former. Anyway, for those single folk looking for a partner this story surely shows, that if there's someone right for you out there, it doesn't really matter where you are, or where they are, just start publishing a book and things will start to happen!

Not long after arriving in England we made a trip to Portmeirion and Marsha became enchanted with the place and started gathering material for her eventual Virtual Portmeirion website . We went back to Portmeirion most years for our vacation and never tired of it.

 

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